As a fit, attractive, divorced plus 40 year old woman, absolutely the only. And im dating a 25 yr old guy. His last gf was 49, and it lasted. Im curious on why you have decided to date a younger woman? Im curious because i am dating a man who is 40 and i am also 25.
I'm focusing on the now, but thanks for looking out. If I think about it, I would guess that there’s a bit of a group-think or trend following thing going on. If there’s any problem here, I don’t see it.
The hardest part is society. The most important thing is, CAN YOU TRUST HIM? The nice part, is that the girls who are into it, are usually very into it. The ones that stick around haven’t been phased much. The only thing you would be to them was a prize, a MILF. The reverse is also true. The same thing happened to me!
- Evan made all good points, but I don’t think he answered the question as to why men in their 20s find older women interesting.
- Generally I just try and use the age difference to my advantage.
- Going down a few notches I think there is also the appeal of the forbidden and the appeal of the trendy, which seem to intersecting right now.
- But many are not.
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- Dan, I'm at a point where I could benefit greatly from spending time with older women.
- And with the age difference, when there's a whole generation gap between you then sooner or later one or both of you tire of it.
- Anyway coming from a woman who has been in a position to have freedom of choices, I've always felt grossed out by "older men who seek younger women.
- As a 53-year-old woman this thread is encouraging.
- At many points in your life, you WILL look to or hesitate because of some external source for approval.
- But evidence and anecdote seem to suggest that for women in their 30s, there's a new template emerging.
Keep studying, and learning, but realize that women don't care about your mental capacity. Last month I saw Nina Hartley in person, 50+. Like I said a lot of it is only theory. MY DATE WITH A 43- YEAR- OLD MAN! Maybe these relationships would have better statistics if A)We stopped asking others if our happiness could last and B)People around us were less judgemental.
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Since many singles in their mid-forties already have kids, I can see how checking a want kids? Smart girls with personality can rejoice after years of griping that guys never give them a chance because the boys have finally grown up! So hearing the preaching from the old bags is doubly annoying and naive. So naturally that younger guy with his high counts and his healthy sperm is a super fertility fit for an older woman who still has an egg supply.
Neither of us has any other kids. Neither of us is the slightest worried by that fact, and we have travelled over all of Europe and to America. Nellie, please don’t be nervous, I have a friend who is dating a girl 15 years younger he is 39 and she 54 the age difference never matter for either and the girl don’t look anything near her age. No one would have predicted it, not us or our family.
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We're sorry but our system has identified your computer as an automated web crawler. We’re still friends though, and if you don’t take it too seriously, that’s definitely a side advantage, I’d say we’re both rather protective of one another, and give each other good advice. Where are BMW’s a car that doesn’t signify wealth?
HIS LOVE HAS MADE ME A BETTER WOMAN AND HE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME WHEN I NEED HIM.He is 49 and I am 23 and we are expecting our first child in July.
The truth is that the number one thing a man is attracted to in a woman is confidence. Them: "Thats not the same thing! Then again, maybe Oedipus is rearing his head.
Why do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? Without those weightier responsibilities, Millennial boys (or, for the most part, the ones I've encountered) are. Women tend to lose their looks quickly, a pretty one can be ugly or plain looking by 35. Year- old virgin on why he's never had a real girlfriend New.
If they weren't turned on by it, that wouldn't be the most popular theme and sell the most novels. If you read Daring Greatly you will see that we all have our vulnerabilities. Im finding this much younger man to be more mature than most men I meet my age! In the best way possible. In the gym a while back I met a lady-friend I haven't seen in a while. Ish guy with an 18 year old girl. It is meant to be a great experience between two people who are attracted to each other.
Oh yeah every man I have ever been with has cheated, lied, manipulated, me, mentally, physically, and emotionally. Once you understand where men are coming from, which I would not have been able to do without the help of "Why He Disappeared," it is very simple! Our main attraction switches are a. People love who they love and should be open to the unexplored possibilities. Personally I have dated women 12 years my senior and 12 years younger (nice symmetry but accidental).
How about you shut the hell up about what two consenting adults do if it makes them happy? How do some people know I have no sense of who I am? I am 68, but a young healthy 68 year old. I am 70 years & am constantly taken for 55 (only by people at Dr office when they get over shock of mybmedicare card).
Honestly, these sad, old men chasing women half their age just cannot face up to the fact that they are no longer young and 'have it'.
He’s more mature than some of the 40 somethings I have dated.His birthday was coming up so I did a charcoal drawing of his face and wrote a birthday message.
There is not even a part of me that is considering a long term relationship with this woman. These men are well aware of the fact that they're no longer as young as they once were. This thread is 43 posts long it about time somebody threw in the required comment. Today, we give men an extra decade to "launch" themselves professionally. Trust me, I can tell a lot about a situation just by the way someone looks.
I meet about half the women by approaching in real life - bookstores, grocery, coffee shops, bars - and the rest off things like Tinder. I of course start accusing him of cheating and say things I later regret. I shave a few years off on my online profiles, and in person I am just honest. I totally agree I am dating a 24 yr old lovely man I am 49. I'm 24 I was talkin to a woman that was 26, we couldn't take our relationship any further because she felt I was too young "/.
Men in their 20’s & 30’s may say they don’t want kids (or may mistakenly believe they are sterile) but may start to feel otherwise as they approach 40. Men would be the most attracted to women when they are most able to bear their healthiest children, so ages in early 20’s. Most guys in their thirties think they're doing YOU a favor by holding your hand and saying that you look beautiful. My daughters are getting used to the idea.
He met her and fell in love with her and now children don’t matter to him anymore because he say she is his world and he cannot see life without her by his side so age is just matter of speech or a number.He said he missed me and all that but.Hey, if you still have the juice to hang with kids, go crazy.
Plus, any older woman that is single, basically didn’t make the “marriage cut” in her twenties and early thirties, so why would you take damaged goods? She is pretty good looking though. She uses her anger about him having a hot piece of ass as evidence that he can no longer get a hot piece of ass.
While the "cougar" (the older woman who pursues significantly younger men) is at least partly an overhyped media creation, there's some evidence that for one age group in particular, this is a real emerging trend. Why do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? Why do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!?
It isn’t as simple as just some mental exercise where we say ‘fat is good’ or ‘hey, a little chubby is right up my alley’. It seems most men prefer younger women, many of them preferring unrealistically younger women. It was sickening, he would lie about everything. Its just the truth, but there might be some great guys that will treat you right just maybe not one this young! Just because someone is divorced or has children doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t give them a chance.
I get told all the time that I look 20 years younger than I am. I guess it depends upon where you are. I have always taken care of myself, I am physically active and make most 30 year old men look unfit. I have been present with her at the hospital for countless hours, even sleeping there to make sure she gets the best care. I know him since he was 15. I know that people of all ages find each other attractive.
So, I am not as concerned as what society thinks of me. Sorry Evan you’re wrong and she’s right! That’s something you could never have talked me into at 25. That’s when I understood what it was to be in that role, to be someone’s bitch, essentially.
I am an athletic, blonde, 5ft '3 twenty year old woman. I am going to stop judging what they may be looking for and just take some risk. I can do all the work and I'm happy as hell. I don’t see it much of an issue being involved into a relation with an older guy. I feel like I’m touching her without even touching her. I felt that way early in the relationship. I find it almost easier to attract and ultimately bang older woman than the younger girls.
- Absolutely agree with you!
- After my separation and divorce, I met a gentleman who was 23 yrs older than me.
- And in every instance they always say they love her for her and that the age thing doesn’t matter.
- And whereas younger women are putting you through the paces to see if you can provide her with a life, an identity, and a future, an older woman already knows who she is and what she wants to do—she’d just love someone to share it with.
- They aren't what I'm looking for anyway.
- I love that I can finally talk about preffering older men, because usually when I try to talk about it, I get the odd snigger, and the usual draconian victoriana opinion, such as “I think he might be a bit too old for you”.
- I get dogged so much about our ages but I don’t care, we are happy and that’s all that matters to us.
Us women do care for older men. We all have our own preferences and some women happy to like younger men, too. We are all living much longer and healthier lives, 40s is like the new 20s. We are now making plansto get married. We know you won't, that's why you're easy to spot.
My maths tells me with that equation he should date a 32 year old. My only concern is what society will think. NO man ever had a better wife!